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Jewish Naming Traditions: Why Names Matter So Much and How the Rules Differ

Why Ashkenazi Jews name after the dead and Sephardic Jews name after the living.

By The JewSA CrewMarch 23, 2026
Key Takeaways
  • Jewish names link the living to the dead and the individual to the family line.
  • Ashkenazim name after deceased relatives, treating naming after the living as bad luck.
  • Sephardim do the opposite, honoring living grandparents by sharing their names.
  • Most Jewish Americans hold both a Hebrew ritual name and a secular English name.

Names in Jewish culture carry specific weight. They connect the living to the dead, the present to the past, and the individual to the family line. The customs vary significantly by community.

In Ashkenazi tradition, children are named after deceased relatives. The soul of the person who has died is honored by giving their name to a new child. Naming after a living relative is considered bad luck. The result: every Ashkenazi family tree carries the names of ancestors forward through generations.

Sephardic tradition does the opposite. Children are named after living relatives, typically starting with grandparents. This is considered an honor to the living grandparent. In a Sephardic family, a grandfather and his new grandchild commonly share the same name.

Most Jewish Americans have both a Hebrew name and a secular English name.

Most Jewish Americans have both a Hebrew name and a secular English name. The Hebrew name is used in religious contexts, for aliyot, for the ketubah, for prayers for healing, and for burial. Many secular names are anglicizations of Yiddish names that were themselves translations of Hebrew names. Sadie may come from Sarah. Harry may come from Hershel, which comes from Tzvi. Irving may come from Israel.

Boys receive their Hebrew name at the brit milah on the eighth day after birth. Girls are typically named at a synagogue Torah service. Many liberal communities hold a simchat bat ceremony that mirrors the brit milah in formality.

Even families who observe little else often name children after grandparents. The name is the thread.

Frequently Asked Questions

Why do Ashkenazi Jews name children after the dead?

In Ashkenazi tradition, children are named after deceased relatives so the soul of the person who died is honored by giving their name to a new child. Naming after a living relative is considered bad luck, which is why family names get carried forward through generations.

How do Sephardic naming customs differ from Ashkenazi ones?

Sephardic tradition does the opposite of Ashkenazi custom, naming children after living relatives, typically starting with grandparents, as an honor to the living grandparent. In a Sephardic family, a grandfather and his new grandchild commonly share the same name.

When do Jewish children receive their Hebrew names?

Boys receive their Hebrew name at the brit milah on the eighth day after birth. Girls are typically named at a synagogue Torah service, and many liberal communities hold a simchat bat ceremony that mirrors the brit milah in formality.

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